A True Christian Home
By Edriss Perjuste
Today’s Society: In the world that we live today, society has
deteriorated to the point where men have taken on the custom of Satan rather
than God. That is why we have so much evil in the world, wars left and right,
divorce rates at an all time high, sexual immorality, and more youth are becoming
more violent committing all types of crimes. There needs to be a change and it
all starts at home.
The Home Atmosphere: The home is often regarded as simply a
habitable place, somewhere to go to lie down after a long stressful day. There
is a saying I hear people say all the time referring to their home “I’m going
to go into my cave”. The home is much more than just a habitable place or a
cave; the home should be like a little piece of heaven on earth where love,
joy, happiness and God’s principles are cultivated. The atmosphere of the home
should be where the spirit of God dwells, it should be peaceful; it should be
welcoming, love should be felt there and it should be a place to find refuge.
Parent’s Role at Home: Parents create the atmosphere of the
home circle; parents should, in their words and deportment toward each other, give
to the children a precious living example of what they desire them to be.
Purity in speech and true Christian courtesy should be constantly in practice. Teach
the children the ways of God, to be true to him, obey him and, teach them to
respect themselves. By teaching them the laws of God, parents are instilling in
them principles that will control their lives and also how they interact with
others. Parents are to pray with children every day showing them how to
communicate with God effectively. Teach the children to have temperance in all
things and not to allow passion to control them. Fathers and mothers should
exhibit the fruit of the spirit in the home which is; love, joy, peace,
forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control. (Galatians
5:22-23) .
Make Home a Happy Place: when true love through Christ is practiced
in the home, happiness is always the result. The home should always be a happy
place; it should be the place where both children and parents are happy to come
to. There should be no strife in the home; it is gentleness and peace that
should be desired there. Every home should be a place of love, a place where
the angels of God abide, working with softening, subduing influence upon the
hearts of parents and children leading them towards Christ. Everything should
be done with love and care, bearing each other in mind so that the spirit of
God can continue to dwell in the home. In 2 Corinthians 3:17 the bible says
where the spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. It is the responsibility of
the parents to make sure the atmosphere of the home is always a happy one.
Safeguard The Home:
In 2 Timothy 1:14 the bible says to guard, through the Holy Spirit who dwells
in us, the treasure which has been entrusted to you. The home is not ours but
it is God’s, therefore we must safeguard the home with the spirit of God. Make
your home a house of prayer, submit yourselves unto the Lord and He will direct
your path and protect you from evil. Make sure the children pray every day and
show the utmost respect for God. Teach them to fear the Lord. In Psalms 34:7
the bible says; The angel of the Lord encampeth round about them that
fear him, and delivereth them.
A true Christian home is a place where
true love is cultivated and everyone abides in the laws of God and practice
them day and night. In Psalm 128:1-4 the bible says Blessed is everyone that feareth the Lord; that walketh in his ways. For thou shalt eat the labour of thine
hands: happy shalt thou be, and it shall be well with thee. Thy
wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like
olive plants round about thy table. Behold, that thus shall
the man be blessed that feareth the Lord.
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